Hey guys,
WOW over 100,000 hits. I was going to do a special Post for the 100,000 hit but I missed that oh well. This weekend was sure interesting. Friday of course I went to Dragon like always. With Sun and Mark and also Kevin my goh goh who I really missed. That was very fun when we got home we talk for like 2 hours out side my home. HAHA
Saturday I went on a date with a guy who is 30 really nice guy too, however, there where some things that are a turn off. And no its not his looks it is his personality. The first thing is that when he got into the car he said "Hi, thanks for picking me up" and than he said "wow your Korean I can not believe your Korean". First thing what person would lie about who they are. This was a turn off for me because we talk for like 3 hours on the phone 2 days before we met. So he knew and he saw my picture so you should not say that when we met. Its weird how Mark, Kevin, and Sun who are gay know that not all Koreans look like what you see in Dramas and TV shows etc. 
He also has no car. I'm sorry but at 30 years old you should have a car. I am only 23 and go to school and I have a car and I do not even have a job. He told me that since he lost his job his father took over the payments for him so now the car is his fathers. To me makes me wounder hes 30 his father must be in 50s-60s so he should already have a car. His father should know he should help his son out he lost his job and to find a new job hes going to need a car. This is another turn off. Because I do not want to be the guy who has to pick him up all the time. It should be a equal part we meet somewhere or take turns picking each other up. I am not saying he should have a BMW but at least a car. I had to pay for somethings which was Ok because I know he lost his job so I know he does not have much money, but at 30 and working at business selling house I would think you would have save up when things like losing your job or emergency things come up. This is not a turn off just really sad.
When we went to the movies with Mark, Sun, and Ryan and saw Bruno which was a stupid movie that really makes gays look bad. He was so gay when he came out of the movie and was like that was a good movie. This is a turn off for me. I like guys who are not so feminine. A lot of you people do not see the difference in Feminine and FOB(Fresh of the boat). A fob is Asian acting which to western seems gay like acting, but Feminine is like a girl. But if you look closely there is a difference in how they act. Fobby is more metrosexualy and Feminine is more like a women, the walk the talk etc. Only a person who's Asian or been to Asia can see the difference.After I took him home I called Sun we talk for many hours. And a break in our friendship open up. We both had a problem in our friendship which was misunderstand what we say. Like he sad to me he felt sad and sorry for me. Like he really though that when I date someone its like for a few weeks. But I had told him before I went on a date with guy and he thinks its for a few times. I told him that if you added up all the dates I had since I was 14 now 23 it would only be 2 1/2-3 weeks my whole life. This is not counting my first and only boyfriend. We just could not communicate right and with that we would fight and misunderstand each other. SO everything bad I said about Sun here on the blog I take back. I know I did not say bad things but things like him not caring and so on I take back.
Than on Sunday Mark, Sun, Tatsu and I went up to the city and went to Trigger and Bad Lands. I was drunk like always. There were a few cute guys, both white and Asian. Tatsu was funny like hell, and we all had a good night. Nothing much happen on Sunday but walking around and having fun. We did met a cute Singaporean guy who really likes Sun. But to bad that guy is leaving tomorrow. Me and Sun again talk for hours on the phone. We hate that most the guys we like do not live here. That Singaporean guy is our kinda of guy. Decent looking guy, dress normal, acts normal not flaming gay, and is just decent all around. Most the guys we like who are decent are all bottoms. And girls have problems, oh that hot guy is either taken or gay, haha well we have different, hes either a bottom or live far away.
Latz
